Engagement

No — but sharing the same metal is the simplest way to make matching wedding bands look like a set. That said, many couples mix metals intentionally. For example, her white gold band can complement his two-tone yellow and white gold ring beautifully. The key is having at least one connecting element — whether that's metal, finish, width proportion, or design detail — that visually ties the rings together.

A wedding band set typically refers to two bands — one for each partner — designed to be worn together. A bridal set (sometimes called a 3-piece wedding ring set) includes the engagement ring plus two matching wedding bands. Bridal sets are designed so the engagement ring and wedding band nest flush against each other, creating a seamless stacked look.

Each ring in a his and hers set is sized independently — your set isn't a matching size, it's matching style in your individual sizes. When you order, you'll select the size for each ring separately. If you're unsure, we recommend using our free ring sizing guide, measuring at the end of the day when fingers are at their largest, and when in doubt, sizing up by a half size for comfort fit bands.

Yes, in most cases. Couples wedding band sets are priced to offer better overall value than purchasing two individual rings. Beyond the price, buying a set means you are guaranteed matching design elements without having to hunt for coordinating styles separately. You also save time and simplify the entire buying experience.

14K white gold is consistently our most popular metal for matching his and hers wedding bands. It offers a bright, diamond-like appearance, excellent durability, and a mid-range price point that works for most budgets. Yellow gold has surged in popularity recently as vintage aesthetics make a comeback. For couples seeking maximum durability and scratch resistance, tungsten and titanium are excellent modern alternatives.

Absolutely. Many of our most popular couples sets pair a diamond band for her with a plain or textured band for him — different in design, but connected by metal, width proportion, or finish. If you can't find a set that has exactly what you both want, our team can help you identify two rings from our collection that will complement each other beautifully as a custom pair.

Yes. In addition to our ready-to-ship collection, we offer personalization options including custom engraving, metal upgrades, and diamond additions on many styles. If you have a specific vision for your matching wedding rings that you don't see in our collection, contact our team — we work with couples to create custom pairs that bring their exact idea to life.

The most common width for women's wedding bands is 2mm–4mm; for men's bands it's 5mm–8mm. When choosing matching wedding bands, it helps to maintain a visual ratio — for example, if her band is 3mm, his at 6mm creates a proportional pair. That said, there are no rules: wear the width that feels right on your hand and reflects your individual style. A comfort fit interior can make even wider bands feel lightweight and wearable all day.

Start with a shared anchor: agree on a metal first — that single decision makes the entire search easier. From there, each partner can explore styles within that metal independently, then compare. You'll often find that your individual preferences share more common ground than you'd expect. Alternatively, choose rings with a single connecting detail (e.g., a milgrain edge or a hammered finish on both) while allowing everything else to reflect each person's individual style.